Friday, June 26, 2020

Book Review: Akata Witch by Nnedi Okorafor



Akata Witch
by Nnedi Okorafor

I have found myself gravitating toward YA Literature again lately. I simply find that there are really great books being written in that area with strong voices - incredible, accessible, fast-paced stories.

About six months ago I came across Akata Witch by Nnedi Okorafor on a list of best sci-fi and fantasy books and immediately added it to my collection. I love anything that uses mythology in it and this sounded great.

Sunny Nwazue is a young woman who walks in two worlds.

Sunny’s parents came from Nigeria to America, had three children, then something told Sunny’s mother that they needed to go back to Nigeria so they did. The story begins there, in Nigeria. “You see why I confuse people? I’m Nigerian by blood, American by birth, and Nigerian because I live here.” Sunny is also albino.

There is a good bit of pain in this book. The author doesn’t flinch away from it, and she doesn’t sugar coat it. Sunny’s mother loves her very much, but her father is less caring. He is very, very strict, almost contemptuous of her, hitting her if she gets out of line. Corporal punishment is used in the school. Sunny is bullied and physically attacked by a classmate named Jibaku. These are regular facets of Sunny’s life, but the worst is yet to come.

There is a ritual serial killer on the loose, named Black Hat Otokoto, killing and maiming little children. Then Sunny sees something in a candle flame one night, a scene of apocalyptic proportions. She doesn’t know what to make of it, but she soon will, as she learns about the Leopard People and her own abilities. (Lambs are ordinary folk who don’t have talent with Juju.)

Sunny makes new Leopard friends – Orlu, Sasha, and Chichi. They become a team destined to fight off this darkness together using Juju and teamwork. They are more than the team though, they are each wonderful individual characters. 

In this world, learning is more than its own reward, the Leopard people are also rewarded FOR it, in a very interesting way. World defining elements are explained in boxed entries as the issue comes up – such as money leopard people earn for learning, called chittim, and spirits called masquerades.

There is also a lot of lovely, happy bits to balance the fear and pain. Sunny loves to play soccer. Ghost Hoppers, giant grasshoppers, start appearing in Sunny’s house. A wasp artist is one of those fantastical details. (I don’t want to give how it comes about away, but it is an incredibly charming detail, watch for it.)

It is a richly developed book full of mythology and intricate with original details. I highly recommend Akata Witch. I’m about to start Akata Warrior myself.

Wednesday, June 24, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 14



Like most parents, I’m struggling to keep my daughter from being on the computer or a device ALL day long. It’s summer, I want her to have some experiences, and create things, but I still have to do my job, whether it’s from home or at the office.


By 8 am
Wake up and dress.
8:30 am
Breakfast
9-10 am
Outside time
10 – 10:30 am
Chores
10:30 – Noon
Academic exercise – math worksheets, puzzles, etc.
Noon – 12:30 pm
Lunch
12:30 – 1:30 pm
Artistic endeavors – music, dance, art, etc.
1:30 – 3:00 pm
Reading and/or writing
3 – 4:00 pm
Outside time
4:00 – 6:00 pm
Free time
6:00 – 7 pm
Family dinner
7 – 9 pm
Free time
9 – 10 pm
Prepare for bedtime

Now, I’m not going to be inflexible about it. (She is more than me.) My husband also had an idea of setting up a board with a variety of activities with numbers on them so she could roll his 20 sided die and get an activity to do.

(By the way, I went out to give it to her and she was eating with her phone again. I have told her before that she needs to put the phone down while eating. She dumped her pancake on the floor the other day. This may take some time and reminders.)

I told her to finish breakfast, look at the list, and think about it. See if there are any changes or additions to make. What did she do? She finished breakfast, put her dish in the kitchen, and went straight back to her phone.

I did not get angry, I was not surprised. I went out, had her turn off the phone and take her head set off. I try to speak in a calm and loving tone when correcting her, because it’s easy to get angry and feel harassed that I had given her instructions and she wasn’t following them. I asked her what I had asked her to do?

I explained that I wasn’t going to take the phone away from her. (That idea has induced a mild panic before.) But that her mind needed a variety of activities like art and music and her body did too, like going outside to play and get exercise, so we would be limiting how much time she spent on devices. I asked her if that made sense and she said yes.

So far, so good. A little time outside checking the garden and fruit trees, a little time working on chores, and a little time organizing leftover worksheets from the school year that she could do this summer to keep the info in her mind.

We’ll get through this, I’m sure of it, and be all the better for having a little more time with our kids.

As you can see from the pictures, our garden is doing really well! The one lone pumpkin plant is labeled in the upper left and we have several little cucumber plants, pictures in the lower right. The upper right is sunflowers and the lower left are acorn squash plants. I’m extremely grateful tonight for the rain I can hear coming in little showers outside. 😊

Friday, June 19, 2020

Book Review: A Curious Beginning by Deanna Raybourn



A Curious Beginning is the first of the Veronica Speedwell series by Deanna Raybourn.

I started out enjoying the book very much.

Veronica Speedwell is a lepidopterist, a person who studies and collects butterflies.

She has just lost the second of the two women who were her guardians and took care of her, her whole life. The vicar and his wife propose taking her in, but Veronica has an adventurous streak.

“I took a sip of my tea, pleased to find it scalding hot and properly strong. I abhorred weakness of any kind but most particularly in my tea.”

She has already traveled to many places around the world and brought home many butterfly specimens that she sold under a nom de guerre so that the buyers wouldn’t know she isn’t a man. It is 1887, after all. She believes herself to be “a foundling, orphaned and illegitimate.”

When she goes home to get her things together and leave for a new adventure, a new adventure comes calling in the form of a man who has tossed her cottage very destructively. An older gentleman comes to her aid and ends up taking her to a friend of his, Stoker, until he can return. He never does.

Soon, Stoker is wanted for murder and Veronica is one of the few people who know he couldn't have done it. This is the beginning of their adventure together, which reveals much about Veronica’s heritage. Stoker’s own life is a mystery through much of the book.

It’s an adventure no doubt, and other different circumstances I might have enjoyed it more. Perhaps part of it is this time we’re all living through, but it just wasn’t holding my attention very well. In the end, it was okay, but I wouldn’t pick up another of the books unless there wasn’t much else to choose from.

The purple prose is a little bit tedious. I know that it is meant to portray the manner of speech during this time and in her social circle, but it seems a bit much and it gets tiring. On the other hand, if you enjoy this level of ornate language, then this might be a good book for you.

Veronica is very progressive thinker for the times when it comes to equality in sexual relations for men and women. The issue comes up several times. It’s a little strange because she doesn’t seem to care who knows it, and yet she states that she is very careful to only pursue such diversions while abroad.

I finished the book and it was okay, but I’d probably give it somewhere between 3 and 4 stars.

Wednesday, June 17, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 13



The school year is done. It is officially summer vacation here. There are no more assignments I can give her from school to keep her brain moving away from the black hole that is videos on Youtube.

Yikes!

She does find other things to do, but they don't seem to take her long. She has already completed four hours of a coding program for kids. 

She's smart, but sometimes she reminds me she is still a kid. 

This past week we had the belated, “if you cut your doll’s hair it will not grow back and it will not look as nice” lesson. (I wasn’t in the house so I’m not sure who did the cutting and who needed the lesson.)

However, we were able to turn it into the teachable moment that says, “However, it will not look quite as bad after the initial upset has worn off and you’ve drunk some water and relaxed.”

I told my daughter to remember this, that it applies to haircuts that don’t turn out quite the way we pictured and a multitude of other things in life that seem quite awful in the moment. Have a cry, drink some water, relax, give it a little time, and things may not seem quite so bad.

I did get the child to do some sorting of her toys yesterday and she actually threw away a package one came in, of her own volition! I was amazed. That rarely happens.

I was very happy when she put a bag of “supplies” for artwork on her desk. I like that she is thinking in that direction. She has been looking up different characters almost daily and doing a drawing of her own choosing.

I gave her a little assignment yesterday, to think about a card for Father’s Day, since that is coming up this weekend. She decided she wants to make him a picture. I’m waiting to see what that is.

I’ve started weeding in the garden daily and she has been helping a little. At other times, she has worked on picking rocks for my husband and carrying water for me.

I’m also engaging her in helping with meals, whether it’s cutting some things up for me, mixing, or fetching from the fridge. I figure any break in screen time is good.

As I started searching for summer schedules for tweens, I found articles recommending searching for rec programs and camps. That’s not something my husband and I are comfortable with right now. In fact, a LOT of the summer things on lists around the Internet are kind of out the window right now.

My husband and I have been talking about creating a schedule for her. Here is one that I found online. https://teentake30.com/f/covid-19-weekday-schedule-for-teens-and-tweens I intend to see how we can adapt it for ourselves, with some input from the munchkin.

I’ve started back to work in the office a couple days a week myself so that means I’m not there all the time, and not really available a lot of the other times.

This is going to be tricky.

Is it time to go back to school yet?

Friday, June 12, 2020

Book Review: The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas




The Hate U Give 
by Angie Thomas

I first found this book when I was researching book trailers last year. The trailer was so compelling that I immediately jumped over to Goodreads and put it on my to read list. Sadly, I forgot about it and never picked it up, until now.

(Fan made book trailer can be found at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MuCNYnt--sA )

There is a trailer for a movie as well. I have not seen the movie, but the review of it sounded to me like there was quite a lot of divergence between the book and the movie. Honestly, if you’ve seen the movie, PLEASE give the book a chance. You’ll get so much more out of it, I’m willing to bet.

Recent events made me start looking for a book to read that would take me inside the perspective of a contemporary black woman. I saw this one and remembered how much I had wanted to read it.

The wonderful thing about fiction is the way it can take you inside someone else’s head and help you not only see what they see but feel what they feel. You can be inside their existence and experience a level of empathy that you may not be able to experience any other way. It makes the information and feelings more accessible. 

Starr is a high school girl at a party where she doesn’t feel comfortable. She comes across an old friend, Khalil.

“I feel like I’m ten again, standing in the basement of Christ Temple Church, having my first kiss with him at Vacation Bible School.”

They are just chatting and catching up when a fight breaks out and a gun is fired. They don’t stop to find out what is going on, they run with everyone else.

“I don’t try to see who got shot or who did it. You can’t snitch if you don’t know anything.”

They escape, and are headed home, listening to some music, when they get pulled over by the police. Khalil is annoyed and Starr is scared. He tries to reassure her that it’s going to be alright, but when he opens the car door to check on Starr, the cop shoots him. (The cop later claims he thought the hairbrush in the pocket of the door was a gun.) Starr watches Khalil die. Then the cop holds the gun on her until back up arrives.

Her parents come and get her. She is sick and numb.

“I’m lying in bed. Khalil is lying in the county morgue. That’s where Natasha ended up too. It happened six years ago, but I still remember everything from that day.”

Starr had watched another friend die. Natasha was killed in a drive by shooting by a gang member as the two of them played in the water from a fire hydrant on a hot day. The three of them had been friends. “Tighter than the inside of Voldemort’s nose.”

“I always said that if I saw it happen to somebody, I would have the loudest voice, making sure the world knew what went down. Now I am that person, and I’m too afraid to speak.”

At first they try to keep it quiet that Starr is the witness, she doesn’t even tell her friends at school, but as situations and events pile up, she steps forward.

We see the warmth of a close-knit family, and the traditions echoed in communities everywhere, taking food to the home of the bereaved grandmother after she loses her beloved grandson.

“Cameron holds his grandma’s hand as he leads her into the living room like she’s the queen of the world in a housecoat. She looks thinner, but strong for somebody going through chemo and all of this. A scarf wrapped around her head adds to her majesty – an African queen, and we’re blessed to be in her presence. The rest of us stand.”

I love the way we get to know all different types of people in the book who are multi-dimensional. There’s Starr’s older brother, Seven, and her younger brother Sekani. Her father, Big Mav, and her mother, Lisa. There’s a list of characters too big to name in a little book review, it’s a whole neighborhood and then some, but it never gets unmanageable. Sometimes it gets confusing when authors introduce too many people, but not here. Thomas introduces them one by one into the action with situations and characteristics that make them stand on their own like real people.

There are so many facets to the story, I couldn’t possibly cover them all here, but she tackles it all beautifully. Starr’s uncle, Carlos, is a cop himself. Starr is dating a white boy from her school named Chris, and they care very much about each other. Music is a major strand, the dating life of teens, social interactions, being one of the few black kids in a mostly white school her mother enrolled her in, and PTSD. The fear that Starr lived with that something bad could happen when they were stopped by a cop. The guilt Starr feels for living and for not speaking up right away. Thomas clearly depicts how Starr gets to the point where she wants to riot, but also sees the damage that the rioting does to her neighbors and neighborhood.

The gang activity in the community is a large part of the story, as the head of one gang is married to Seven’s mother. The story is never simple, and yet it is clearly told and easy to follow. We see the good and the bad in the neighborhood. How belonging to gangs can provide for people even as it contributes to the decay. The way the gangs are part of the community, like it or not. Starr’s father is the former head of a gang and went to jail for three years to get out of the gang. Thomas touches on the system of drugs, addiction, selling, jails, and poverty.

It is a very rich story that brings these characters beautifully to life. You half expect you could start driving and eventually pull up in front of their house.

I don’t think I have a single negative to give about this book. It is wonderful – insightful, accessible, and expressive. I want everyone to read it. If I could give it more than five stars I would. 

It is another solid example of why I say that some of the best authors out there are writing young adult literature and everyone should read some.

Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 12




Well, MOST of  the seeds in our little kitchen garden came up. Okay, maybe 60%. The seeds were older so I'm happy with that. We've got a good chance at some cucumbers! 

Fortunately or unfortunately, this is the last week of lessons for my daughter’s school. Having her do some online school work has been useful for me because it kept her occupied instead of watching videos all day long. There are many things I’d love to do with her, but I have to do my own work too.

As a child, my mother was usually busy cooking or cleaning, then she went back to work when I was around my daughters age. I spent most of my time at home in some combination of watching television, reading, or playing by myself, and later schoolwork – usually any 2 at the same time. I read a lot once I was able to get myself down to the library and back on my own. (We lived in a small town.)

Unfortunately, books just don’t seem to have the same kind of pull for my daughter that they did for me or my husband. Reading doesn’t seem to hold her attention the way I might wish. She read the first three books of the anime series I bought her, seemed to LOVE them, then she put them aside.

During the school year, my daughter would be at school for most of the day, come home and do homework, then have a little bit of time, less than an hour, before dinner. During the summer she was typically at daycare which limited her time with these things as well, and helped to keep her moderately active.

So, the question becomes, how are we going to keep her offline and active during this summer at home while we have our own work to accomplish?

My husband and I have been having her write a list of things she could do during the summer here at home while we work. So far, she has come up with lots of things to watch and do on the computer, like things to watch and playing Minecraft, but she also included baking, playing hide and seek inside like we used to do, and learning choreography. My husband has added some and I have a few of my own to add.

We’re more focused on things like painting, drawing, crafts, sketching, exploring old and new music, learning to play soccer, baseball, basketball, learning Japanese since she likes the anime, explore different instruments, drawing anime characters, and learning mythology.

I’d like to figure out a way to make this less of a struggle than I suspect it is going to be so please let me know if you have any ideas, and I will share what I come up with in the coming weeks.

Thinking back to last week’s entry, as well as the ongoing protests and discussion growing out of them, I’d like to end by sharing a link to this 20 minute video that came across my radar. It’s from a storyteller who wanted to explain to kids in a gentle way what is going on in our world and why they may see so many adults around them upset this past week and what the protests are about. 

Unfortunately, it is on Facebook instead of accessible to anyone on the Internet. I plan to watch it with my daughter so I wanted to offer it in case anyone else was looking for something like it.

Queer Storytime - The Black Lives Matter Edition from Ayesha Ali



Friday, June 5, 2020

Book Review: The Wives by Tarryn Fisher



The Wives
by Tarryn Fisher

I picked this book up because some friends wanted to read it as a group. Then I found I needed something to distract me this past weekend so I read straight through.

I’m not sure if the author intended it, but I didn’t realize the main character’s actual name was until probably three quarters of the way through the book. I suspect she may have intended it, so I won’t give it away here.

From my perspective, the narrator has a very warped perspective and that’s apparent right from the first paragraph, “That’s how women are, right? Always wondering about each other – curiosity and spite curdling together in little emotional puddles.”

It’s a thriller and we start out with the narrator clearly intent on keeping her husband focused on her with sex, because she feels she has to compete against two other women in his life, his two other wives in a plural marriage.

“My life is almost perfect,” she says, but it doesn’t sound it to me.

He shows up on Thursdays and spends the night with her, then he spends two other days with the other wives, whose names she doesn’t even know as the story starts.

But she isn’t satisfied, she wants more of him, even as his third wife is pregnant with his child. The narrator is his second wife.

She is obsessed with him, and wants him all to herself. “…everything I am is reserved for him. As it should be.”

She begins to search for the other women, and you know that can’t end well.

There were a few turns of phrase early on in the narrative that made me cringe. The narrator describes “the fat of the lamb congealing around the edges of the serving dish in oranges and creams” though she is out of the room. That threw me for a moment because she couldn’t be observing it.

I didn’t like the narrator at first but I quickly felt sympathy for her, for the untenable situation she had gotten herself into because she loved this man.

But it isn’t remotely that simple, and things deteriorate fairly quickly. You have a feeling that something else is up. I questioned whether she was a reliable narrator, and she was but she wasn’t, and it wasn’t as simple as that.

In the end, it was a distracting and fascinating read with great tension and I didn’t see exactly where it ended upcoming at all!

I don’t read thrillers that often but I might look for another by this author.

Wednesday, June 3, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 11



With the culmination of events that led to protests and demonstrations this past week, I found myself wondering what I could do to be of help. A page I follow on Facebook linked to a helpful list and one thing that caught my attention was to talk to my child about diversity.

Did I really need to talk to my child? I wondered. I had imagined she would understand what my husband and I believe just by how we live our lives. But does she?

As events have unfolded, I’ve found myself talking to my husband while she is safely tucked into her headphones, not wanting her to hear how upset I am by the events that led to protests and then how some protesters were being treated. I didn’t want to scare her with my own questions and concerns.

I decided to have a talk with her. I got out the ingredients to bake something and got her to join me.
I asked, did she know about melanin and how the amount in a person’s skin can be different? She didn’t so I explained that. I also explained that though different groups of people can have different cultures and philosophies, there is only one “race” on Earth, the human race.

It was a place to start.

Today, I received a reference question about folktales from Africa. Although I read a couple wonderful picture books on individual tales years ago in library school and I love Anansi Boys by Neil Gaiman, I knew this was for a middle grade child and neither of those things would fit the bill. I didn’t find much in our online catalog, so I expanded my search to Project Gutenberg where I did find some.

It got me wondering about resources in our online library, and on the Internet in general, to teach children about a more diverse perspective of history. Here are some of the things I’ve come up with.

A History in Which We Can All See Ourselves
Educators are finding ways to tell a richer history of America—responding to the demands of an increasingly diverse student body.
May 23, 2018

Teaching Kids about Diversity and Acceptance
March 4, 2019

Scholastic Magazine
Lesson Plan: Multiculturalism and Diversity

Culture and Diversity
Resource collection

30 CHILDREN’S BOOKS ABOUT DIVERSITY THAT CELEBRATE OUR DIFFERENCES
Danika Ellis Sep 19, 2018

#BLM Books Available Through Overdrive

·        Some Places More Than Others by Renée Watson https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/4879672

·        Separate Is Never Equal Sylvia Mendez and Her Family's Fight for Desegregation by Duncan Tonatiuh https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/1762792

·        Now or Never! Fifty-Fourth Massachusetts Infantry's War to End Slavery by Ray Anthony Shepard https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/3591422

·        Little Leaders Bold Women in Black History by Vashti Harrison https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/3280049

·        Lillian's Right to Vote A Celebration of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 by Jonah Winter Shane W. Evans https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/account/lists/wishlist

·        It All Comes Down to This by Karen English https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/2875515

·        I Look Up To... Michelle Obama by Anna Membrino Fatti Burke https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/3924206

·        Hidden Figures Young Readers' Edition by Margot Lee Shetterly https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/2830082

·        Enough! 20 Protesters Who Changed America by Emily Easton Ziyue Chen https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/4147784

·        Child of the Civil Rights Movement by Paula Young Shelton Raul Colón https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/508352

·        Brave. Black. First. 50+ African American Women Who Changed the World by Cheryl Hudson Erin K. Robinson https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/4837093

·        The Blossoming Universe of Violet Diamond by Brenda Woods https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/842890

·        Ada Twist, Scientist The Questioneers by Andrea Beaty David Roberts                 https://stls.overdrive.com/library/kids/media/2877546