Friday, December 25, 2020

Merry Christmas (book review in the works)

 


I’m afraid the holiday season has eaten away at my time so I’m not nearly done with The Master of Hounds by Joseph Gary Crance to review it. I am enjoying it very much. The Ernst family clan is still living and coon hunting in Painted Post, and young Mattie is a college student now. There’s a wedding at the beginning of the book, and new foes to face. I’ll leave you with author Tarren Young’s guest review of the first book, and I promise to give my review of the fourth in this series next week.

https://storymusing.blogspot.com/2018/02/the-last-coon-hunter-by-joe-crance.html


Friday, December 18, 2020

The Ten Thousand Doors of January by Alix E. Harrow

 


The Ten Thousand Doors of January 

by Alix E. Harrow

I’m not even sure where to start with this book — it’s so big and full of story.

I suppose we should start with January, so named by her mother for the god Janus, who looks both forward and backward.

“You don’t know a thing about me; you can’t see me sitting at this yellow-wood desk, the salt-sweet breeze riffling these pages like a reader looking for her bookmark.”

When the story opens, she seems like a normal little girl, though out of place in this time period and circumstance.

“I wondered if Africans counted as colored in London, and then I wondered if I did, and felt a little shiver of longing. To be part of some larger flock, to not be stared at, to know my place precisely. Being “a perfectly unique specimen” is lonely, it turns out.”

January lives in a manor house with a rich man for a guardian while her father searches the world for artifacts for him. It’s a bit sad, but there is so much more to the story, and as it unfolds, we are taking on a very rich and full journey.

“When I was seven, I found a Door . . . at some level there is always a doorway. A dividing point between here and there, us and them, mundane and magical. It is at the moments when the doors open, when things flow between the worlds, that stories happen.”

There may not be ten thousand doors in this story, but there are a great many. There are also a great many misperceptions and the author is masterful in painting rich pictures that do not give us more information than we need to know at that point in the plot. The writing is beautiful in the pictures it presents and the words chosen.

January has a governess, Miss Wilda who is a bit stodgy, and a friend from the local grocer’s, Samuel Zappia, though she isn’t supposed to spend time associating with him. He still manages to slip her stories to read. He also presents her with her best friend, a puppy she names Sinbad. This dog is just a dog in this novel, but also all of the best things a dog can be, a best friend and protector.

January finds a book in a chest, which she presumes was left there for her by her guardian, which sets her on a journey as it tells the story of Miss Adelaide Lee Larson and her explorations through Doors.

“I wanted to run away and keep running until I was out of this sad, ugly fairy tale. There’s only one way to run away from your own story, and that’s to sneak into someone else’s. I unwedged the leather-bound book from beneath my mattress and breathed in the ink-and-adventure smell of it.”

As I said, there are many Doors in this story, and just as you think you have a handle on what is happening, you step through a new one into something that builds a new story onto the one you are reading.

“…there are these places—sort of thinned-out places, hard to see unless you’re doing a certain kind of looking—where you can go to somewhere else. All kinds of somewhere elses, some of them packed full of magic. And they always leak, so all you have to do is follow the stories.”

A fantastical journey I hope you will take.  


Friday, December 11, 2020

Book Review: Say Cheese and Murder: A Lemington Cheese Company Mystery by Michelle Pointis Burns

 


Say Cheese and Murder

A Lemington Cheese Company Mystery

by Michelle Pointis Burns

 

Mystery reviews can be some of the toughest to write because I don’t want to give away too much information. Also, I have to be completely honest here - I’ve read this book before. The author is a member of my local author’s group. However, I can honestly say I thoroughly enjoyed re-reading this cozy mystery. It is pure fun.

I love a good mystery. Set it in a British manor house on New Year’s Eve and it harkens back to some of my favorite books by Marjorie Allingham and Agatha Christie.

Tensions are high. Add in an ice storm that traps all the partygoers there for the night, and you can feel something is going to go wrong.

Obviously, it does, in a big way. Someone is murdered during the night.

Cassandra Haywood wakes up the next morning with a mystery on her hands. She’s a regular, modern day, working girl, handling business matters in her Aunt’s cheese company. Effectively told from the limited viewpoint of Cassandra, we can only know what she knows, but she doesn’t sit on her hands. The scene where she overhears that she is a suspect is at once humorous and full of great sensory details.  

All the big themes have a place here - love, honor, justice, friendship, and betrayal. The love of refined manor life, and cheese, as well as strong writing skills shine through in this debut novel.

With character names like the vile Baron Von Pickle and a butler named Fartworthy, who is conversely not quite what you would expect from a butler, there is definitely humor here, both overt and less in your face.

As every good mystery demands, this one is brought to a very satisfying conclusion. Cassandra is no shrinking violet and her confrontation with the murderer is well thought out and will have you cheering her on.

I can honestly recommend this book.

 

Description from Amazon

“Happy New Year . . . or is it?

Cassandra Haywood hopes her aunt, Lady Lemington, the CEO of Lemington Cheese Company, will behave tonight. With the help of a large household staff, they are hosting an elegant holiday gala for friends, local merchants, and rival cheese company owners. Scarves and secrets swirl around Cassandra as the clock counts down.

When an unexpected ice storm traps guests and staff within the modern English estate, someone dies in the great halls of the house that cheese built. After Cassandra realizes she has become the head detective’s number one suspect, she must overcome self-doubt to discover the truth and clear her name.

The first book in the Lemington Cheese Company Mystery series serves up intrigue, red-herrings, and humor, alongside several kinds of cheese. This culinary, cozy mystery introduces readers to Cassandra Haywood. She loves scarves, has a knack for business, and unexpectedly adds "amateur sleuth" to her resume following a possible crime at the manor.”


The Author: Michelle Pointis Burns juggles mothering her ten children, homeschooling (the oldest five have now graduated college), living her Catholic faith, and writing. She loves to research topics of all kinds, read British authors (especially Jane Austen and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle), quote movies in regular conversation, and drink hot chocolate from elegant teacups. When asked how she manages it all, she has been known to reply, “Prayer, caffeine, and a sense of humor.”

Michelle has been a devoted member of the NY Chemung Valley Mothers of Twins Club (she has two sets of twins), and the Corning Area Writers’ Group. Born and raised in Queens, NY, Michelle currently lives in Upstate New York on a working goat and sheep farm with her husband and more than half of her children. Say Cheese and Murder is her first novel.

www.michellepointisburns.com


Friday, December 4, 2020

Book Review: Winter Hours by Mary Oliver

 

Winter Hours

by Mary Oliver

Mary Oliver passed away in early 2019 but she left us a wealth of writing. One of my all-time favorite poems is her Wild Geese. You can listen to her read it herself here —
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lv_4xmh_WtE

This collection covers a little bit of poetry, some essays, and even a little biography, though she tended not to put herself at the center of her writing.

“…don’t look for a portrait that is chronological, or talks much about my professional life, or opens to public view the important and proper secrets of the heart. Consider what is written rather as parts of a conversation, or a long and slowly arriving letter…”

Nature was her inspiration and her focus, but she also writes about the writing itself.

“The poem in which the reader does not feel himself or herself a participant is a lecture, listened to from an uncomfortable chair, in a stuffy room, inside a building.”

And the writers who have interested her. There are fascinating essays here about Poe, Frost, Hopkins, and Whitman. She speaks of Poe’s stories as “full of the hardware of the nightmare” while stories by Kafka and James “take place in an uncomfortably familiar” world. “They are, horribly and unmistakably, descriptions of life as we know it, or could easily know it.”

There is also an essay about how she built a little house, mostly by herself, and mostly from materials she recycled from the town dump.

“Here I found everything I needed, including nails from half-full boxes spilled into the sand. All I lacked – only because I lacked the patience to wait until it came along – was one of the ridge beams; this I bought at the local lumber company and paid cash for; thus the entire house cost me $3.58.

Quirky? Perhaps. Fascinating and meditative, definitely.

“I am one of those who has no trouble imagining the sentient lives of trees, of their leaves in some fashion communicating or of the massy trunks and heavy branches knowing it is I who have come, as I always come, each morning, to walk beneath them, glad to be alive and glad to be there.”

A wonderful book to while away the “winter hours.”

 

 


Friday, November 27, 2020

Book Review: The Glass Hotel by Emily St. John Mandel

 


The Glass Hotel

by Emily St. John Mandel

I truly enjoyed the author’s fourth book, Station Eleven, a story about people surviving and continuing after civilization collapses. Just like that book, there is a beauty to the author’s use of language in Glass Hotel that I find enthralling, drawing me forward through the book.

The story begins with a woman named Vincent falling off a ship at sea. Scenes from Vincent’s memory, and possibly more, play out in quick succession. She is a young teen girl, as she scrawls a phrase on a school window using an acid pen, “Sweep me up.” Time moves about uncertainly in this first chapter. “…it seems I can move between memories like walking from one room to the next—"

With subsequent chapters we move forward and backward in time, based on connections born of meaning rather than a straightforward linear progression and we see things from the perspective of different people.

After the acid pen incident, we get quite a jump in time forward and move into the perspective of Paul, Vincent’s half-brother. I would venture to say he is an unreliable narrator.

Then we hear from Walter, the night manager at the Hotel Caiette. Someone scrawls “Why don’t you swallow broken glass” on a window at the hotel, where both Vincent and Paul are working. Walter decides Paul did it, and Paul takes the blame but I can’t help wondering. Vincent was the one who wrote on a window in acid pen earlier in the story, but the words seem much more in keeping with Paul’s character. Who really did it?

There are fascinating observations of human nature, luminous descriptions of settings and charged descriptions of choices and actions.

I love how the author immerses us in the perspective of each character so that we believe what we are hearing but then when we hear about a situation later from another character, we can find that things are not so black and white.

“But does a person have to be either admirable or awful? Does life have to be so binary? Two things can be true at the same time, he told himself.” Is it just Paul justifying himself or is it true? Can it be both?

I love the subtle suspense that draws me through the book, from the beginning when we wonder if Vincent is dead or not, and whether Paul is unstable and murderous, to when we read of Jonathan Alkaitis - a successful businessman but then comes the line “Nothing about him, in other words, suggested that he would die in prison.”

It turns out Jonathan has created a Ponzi scheme. He takes people in, right and left, including Vincent. Even in their relationship there is a strange layer of illusion. They are not married but he insists she wear a ring and introduces her as his wife. Ghosts and hallucinations swirl in the peripheral vision as the story progresses.

As with Station Eleven, the author gives the reader beautiful pieces of a puzzle, drawing the reader on with tantalizing glimpses of foreshadowing, that eventually come together to form a complex portrait of people who are neither evil nor innocent.

I highly recommend this book.


Friday, November 20, 2020

Book Review: Reel of Fortune by Jana DeLeon

 



Reel of Fortune
by Jana deLeon

Okay, I admit it, I never got around to reading what I intended to for this week. The book I reported on last week was so entertaining and enjoyable that I read another one from our library’s Overdrive catalog. There are times that we are all feeling the strain this year and it is good to just have something light to read. So, this week, I decided to share a little bit more about why I have enjoyed the books in this series so much.

This one is actually earlier in the series than the one I read last week, but not enough changes to make it difficult keeping track when you go backward. Fortune’s still dating Carter, still hanging out with Gertie and Ida Belle, but in this one, most people in Sinful, Louisiana don’t yet know that she is a former CIA agent. The information is going to get around fast though and she wants to tell the people she has become closest to before they find out from another source. They take it much better than she anticipated, and with that out of the way, she is ready to have some fun.

“I had no idea what Ida Belle and Gertie had in mind for today, but no matter what, their plans usually required running shoes and a gun.”

Turns out it’s a fishing rodeo. After the event, an entrant that few people actually seem to like turns up dead of cyanide poisoning. Some people are questioned, including Fortune’s new friend Ally. Ally is a little bit high strung and Fortune is worried about her going to jail so she takes the extreme measure of kicking the mirror off her boyfriend’s police vehicle in order to be taken into custody with Ally.

Along come Ida Belle, Gertie, and Ally’s boss, Francine, with dinner for the evening, a deck of cards, and of course Gertie has to include some dynamite.

The next morning both ladies are sprung by a lawyer Fortune knew in her days with the CIA and Carter tells them to stay out of trouble.

What do they do? Settle Ally in at Fortune’s house for some sleep then promptly go sky diving with Gertie. Of course, Gertie gets it wrong and jumps early, ending up right in the middle of a church function. That’s just the beginning of the hijinks too.

That is what I love about these books. The characters are funny and interesting, as are the situations. The dialogue is well constructed too. There couldn’t be a more perfect book for light-hearted mayhem and distraction. I highly recommend.

Friday, November 13, 2020

Book Review: Cajun Fried Felony by Jana DeLeon

 


Cajun Fried Felony

by Jana DeLeon

 

Fortune Redding is a former CIA agent. After a leak at the agency, she was hidden in Sinful, Louisiana for her own safety. Something happened while she was there hiding out though. She made friends, for the first time in a long time, and found people who cared about her. Once the sticky situation that had put Fortune in hiding was taken care of, she found she didn’t want to leave. So she came clean with the people she had become friends with and started a whole new life, as a PI.

This one is Janet Evanovich meets Steel Magnolias. Fortune’s friends, Ida Belle and Gertie, former military spies during Vietnam, remind me very much of the strong personalities in that classic movie. Fortune hires them to comprise a team for her new private investigation business. This is a few books into the series and Fortune is well settled into Sinful. She’s now dating Deputy Carter.

The story starts with the annual Turkey Run. Fortune assumes that’s a race for charity, but it’s a little more literal than that. When things get out of control, the body of Venus Thibodeaux, a young woman who had supposedly left town, is unearthed. Everything points toward Whiskey, the owner of the local bar, and he hires Fortune to find the truth.

Filled with colorful characters and zany happenings, this book is a hoot, and a perfect antidote to reality right now, with just enough seriousness to keep it from being utter fluff.

Fortune sums up the feel of the book, “Murder is always a big deal. But in the big scheme of things, we’re still as close to a slice of Mayberry as we’re getting. I mean, if you wave a magic wand and make Mayberry the strangest place on earth.”

 


Friday, November 6, 2020

Book Review: Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders

 

This one was recommended to me some time ago and I was looking for something in my Overdrive so I grabbed it.

It’s a very . . . unusual book.

If you don’t know, the Bardo is a state of existence, not totally unlike purgatory, between death and rebirth. The length varies based on when a person died and how they lived.  

The majority of the book takes place in the Washington D.C. graveyard where President Lincoln’s young son, Willie, was initially laid to rest when he died at only ten years of age. The scenes where Willie is dying are particularly effective, interspersed with the forced gaiety of a party given at the White House during the Civil War.

Quotes from real sources of the time and made up quotes are interspersed with no note of which is which. It’s rather disconcerting, but it also serves the function of a sort of Greek chorus, often whispering the thoughts of people surrounding the action. I found myself questioning whether things were real, which can go along with a historical novel where events are imagined around historical events, but also goes along with that surreal feel of describing the actions of ghosts.

There are quotes (real and/or imagined) that blame the Lincoln’s for Willie’s death, saying they were too permissive and he died because he rode his pony in the rain, an idea that persists though we KNOW now that viruses cause colds, not being cold. In fact, he died of Typhoid Fever, a bacterial infection from contaminated food or drink.

Lincoln is drawn to the graveyard to visit his son. His grief is well depicted and put into relation with the terrible weight of having initiated a war, of calling on so many to give up their lives for a purpose. He asks himself over and over whether it is the right thing to do and whether he can see it through.

The characters that populate the Bardo run the gamut of humanity. We hear from different people who had very different experiences in life, some quite hedonistic, and some quite horrific. Slavery, and all the hardships and inhumanity that went with it, are part of the story because of this.

Some of the main characters have physical descriptions that are somewhat humorous and definitely outlandish, and, thankfully, difficult to retain in mind. It is part of the surreal quality of the novel. There is a phantasmagorical feel to all the events. If you can hold on to it loosely and move from piece to piece, you’ll be in good shape.

It is definitely not going to be concrete enough for some people to read. You may feel lost, as in the mist, or a dream. I think that feeling is somewhat intentional. If you are okay with it, as I am, you may enjoy this novel. I did. But it’s definitely not for everyone.


Friday, October 30, 2020

Book Review: Keep Moving by Maggie Smith

 

Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change

by Maggie Smith

I have really enjoyed this book. If I didn’t need to write a review for it, it’s one of those books that I would have taken far longer to read, a little at a time, and mull over before moving on.

The physical format is a very satisfying thick, hardcover book, chunky and substantial in the hand. I like how the very short essays alternate with single page entries that work as a sort of meditation moment. The author says she wrote one a day to herself for some time to encourage herself.

There is much that is eminently relatable to me in this book of essays and affirmations, from the difficulties of motherhood post-partum, and the loss of sense of self, to my enjoyment of editing as a whittling down of words to a more “concentrated form.”

I really enjoyed her perspective of many ideas, from “commit to trying” to “what you are worth to someone else is not what you are worth.” I love the idea of looking at difficult times you are going through as your own superhero origin story.

She also provides, in one of her own experiences, a mention of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley. I had never heard of the center but I’m looking forward to checking out their web site as a way to continue working on the ideas the author shares in this book. I suspect it will be very complimentary. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/

The one detraction that I feel I have to note comes from the size of the font on the essays and the color of the font on some of the short entries. The font is really quite small and while it is bold enough to generally read comfortably for myself, I have a feeling some people are going to find themselves squinting at it or getting a magnifying glass. A bigger font would have been wise.

Likewise, the light turquoise color of some entries is lovely, but on the smaller size font entries, it makes some words rather hard to make out on the white pages. In my humble opinion, the former was a choice which may lose some readers, the latter is quite simply a bad choice.

All in all, I am very glad to have the hard cover of this book on my shelf, and I think I will be going back to read it again.


Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: A Final Post

 

I was thinking more about the idea of getting my daughter to read instructions carefully, how doing schoolwork can prepare us for life, and how life can help us with schoolwork.

Recently we were at a local farm store where they were selling bagged cookie mixes. She asked if we could buy one and I agreed.

Now it occurred to me that the directions on the bag of cookie mix could be just what we needed to help her learn to read instructions more carefully and thoroughly. If you want kids to be invested in what they are doing, baking chocolate chip cookies seems like a really good place to start.

So, one day I announced we were going to make the cookies. (To be more accurate, SHE was going to make the cookies while I asked questions and kept an eye on things.)

To start, I asked her what we needed to do first? “Put on an apron,” she said. Well, I usually bake without an apron but it was a valid idea so I said, “okay,” and we found her an apron in the drawer.

Then I told her she needed to read through all the instructions carefully before we started. She read them out loud to me.

I had her tell me what ingredients we needed to gather to go with what was in the bag.

Then I asked her, “what should we do next?”

“Dump the mix out,” she replied.

Hmm. “On the counter?” I asked.

No. We needed bowls and utensils to mix.

Once we had that, she remembered that I usually mix the wet ingredients together first, then add the dry. (The directions on the bag were kind of basic.)

I tried to keep any suggestions in the form of questions, “what do we need to do next?”

She has already done a fair bit of baking with me, so she had some pretty good ideas.

In no time at all, we had cookie dough on tins ready to go in the oven.

Over all, I think it was a very successful first lesson in reading instructions carefully. And we got cookies out of it.

Finally, this will be the last entry in the Home Learning section of this blog. Most people are either home schooling completely and know what they are doing far better than I, or working with their schools..

Thanks for reading. I hope it has been of some help, or will be if you find it later on.


Friday, October 23, 2020

Book Review: It Calls from the Sky: Terrifying Tales from Above

 

It Calls from the Sky: Terrifying Tales from Above

Edited by Alanna Robertson-Webb

 

Though I love the show Supernatural, stories by Neil Gaiman, the Odd Thomas novels by Dean Koontz, and have even written the odd horror story or two, I would not say that horror is my genre. I’m more a fan of urban fantasy and murder mysteries that don’t go too deeply into the gore.

However, I’ve been fascinated by the stories included in this book. I’m afraid the editor ran a little short on time because at least one story was sorely in need of punctuation and grammar editing. However, the story was engrossing enough that I enjoyed it anyway. Some of the stories are well-crafted but downright icky. Others are a little more science fiction with a touch of the horror.

This is a themed anthology as the foreword explains – “As humans we rely so much on what the sky provides; we trust in the sun and moon cycles to keep our plant life alive, and to keep the ocean tides at bay. We trust that the clouds will bring rain to nourish the land and our streams, and that storms will eventually pass. But what happens when the sky itself becomes our enemy?”

Or the danger approaches from the sky? Here we find alien invasions and angels that are no angels. Even rain carries horrors.

One of my favorite stories is Tenure by V.A. Vazquez which combines the good old-fashioned campfire stories of monsters with a Supernatural-esqe style of using knowledge of the old monsters, in this case a Penanggalan, to defeat them. Maybe. A thoroughly enjoyable story with good plotting and pacing, and excellent details. Beware things that smell of vinegar.

Thlush-a-lum by Rebecca Gomez Farrell offers an interesting story perspective starting from the fears of every child when things scratch at the windows. But then the story takes a unique turn, scary but lyrical and kind of lovely too.

Most of the stories end badly for the narrator or main characters. I mean, isn’t somebody supposed to survive? It was nice to have a protagonist win in Flying Home by Joel R. Hunt, at least temporarily.

Another of my favorite stories was Thorn in My Side by Chris Hewitt. A strong leading character with specialized knowledge of computer systems uses satellites and remote systems to get a good view of a sort of alien invasion. There are questions asked that aren’t thoroughly answered but they tantalize the mind and the satisfying story arc is achieved without a “happy ending.”

Storm Clouds by Sarah Jane Justice has a thoroughly unique feel and challenge set in a very short format. Lydia is trying to survive and, to do that, she must not be touched by the rain.

I would be remiss if I did not mention Faithless by M.A. Hoyler where a very unique monster is created through the melding of consciousnesses. A sad and well-wrought story that brings an historical perspective to a modern idea.

I can definitely recommend this collection.


Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 30

 


This morning I went through the papers that were graded by the teacher and returned for my daughter last Friday. Most were correct and good scores, but there were a few things that were incomplete or incorrect.

A few times in the last couple weeks she has told me “Well, the teacher didn’t say we need to do that worksheet.” Ah, but did she say you DIDN’T need to do the worksheet? If she didn’t specifically say you don’t need to do it, then you need to do it. I guess a few slipped by us.

I went over the returned work with her because there are some concepts that she needs to learn for the future, like latitude and longitude, or pronouns taking the place of nouns.

At the end of going over the worksheets, I handed her four that she didn’t complete. Only one had the teacher marked for her to finish, but I’ve asked her to finish the other three as well. I don’t know if the teacher wants to see them, but I want her to realize she needs to finish her work.

Three takeaways that I discussed with her were –

  1. Always read the instructions carefully and ask questions if you aren’t sure what it means. 
  2. Be as clear as possible in your written response. It may make sense to you, but would it make sense to someone else reading the response?
  3. Always do a little more than you think is expected. 

I think that it’s not just the things that we learn in school that give us a frame of reference for interacting with and interpreting the world, it’s what we learn about doing schoolwork that can help us as well.


Friday, October 16, 2020

Book Review - What Unites Us: Reflections on Patriotism by Dan Rather & Elliot Kirschner

 

What Unites Us: Reflections on Patriotism

by Dan Rather & Elliot Kirschner

I’ve been deriving great comfort from reading this book. Mr. Rather has lived through a significant portion of the 20th century, and is able to share his experiences and perspectives from time spent thinking deeply about what he has seen and what it meant. Rather gives you a true sense of how far America has come in that time, what has been built up, and what is at stake as we move forward. It’s a tremendously valuable book right now.

“I profess no great wisdom other than as a chronicler with the exceptional fortune of having had a front-row seat to much of our country’s history. The issues I will raise are too big for any one voice to handle, and I hope my words will spark contemplation and discussion.”

At one point in the book, I felt a deep kinship with Rather as he enumerates questions. I often feel I have far more questions than answers. But it is that willingness to question and seek answers that lies at the root of patriotism when viewed as the goal of making the country you live in a good place to live for all. Identifying the good that needs protecting and the things that need to be improved is an essential part of stewardship anywhere.

“I have seen how a nation can pick itself up and make progress, even at divisive and dysfunctional political moments like the present when we seem to be spinning backward.”

That makes me think of the faltering steps of a baby learning to walk. The child even falls down at times, but it pulls itself up and, moves more steadily forward through trying again and again.

“Patriotism – active, constructive patriotism – takes work. It takes knowledge, engagement with those who are different from you, and fairness in law and opportunity. It takes coming together for good causes. This is one of the things I cherish most about the United States: We are a nation not only of dreamers, but also of fixers. We have looked at our land and people, and said, time and time again, “This is not good enough; we can be better.”

This takes dialogue, the willingness to engage, to disagree, and to debate the issues without throwing our hands up and walking away. We can’t agree to disagree, we have to find a common ground.

“From battlefields to segregated lunch counters, I have seen the cost of freedom and bravery. It is high.”

He talks about getting to know Medger Evers over the issue of the right for African Americans to vote. “He hated the system and the elected officials who manipulated it. But he saw most of his white neighbors as decent Christian people who were just horribly misguided on race. They had grown up in a system they never questioned and never really understood.”

That is an attitude we could use far more of in this country – not hating the people who vote differently, just considering them misguided. It would allow for far more dialogue to continue, at a kinder tone, and maybe we could find more common ground. Though, admittedly, it did not save Medger Evers.

Rather offers first hand accounts of the situations he talks about, along with a clear explanation of the forces in play, and there can be no better teacher than history, if we will only listen.

“When we live in a self-selected bubble of friends, neighbors, and colleagues, it is too easy to forget how important it is to try to walk in the shoes of others. Technology and social medica can be tools for connecting us, but I fear these advancements are in many ways deepening and hardening the divisions between us.”

I see this as well and I think it’s something we have to guard against.

I still have three chapters to read, but I’m already thinking about who I want to buy this book for, and recommend it to. The list is growing.


Wednesday, October 14, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 29

 


Things are going reasonably smooth here for home learning so I thought I’d share a collection of thoughts on a variety of topics related to home learning and raising a pre-teen daughter.

Our library has a great page of resources for children at https://www.ssclibrary.org/about/departments/children/kids-resources/ I highly suggest checking out what your public library makes available from home. It can be a great resource for ideas and research from reputable sources.

I’ve just picked up a couple new books for the munchkin from our library, more anime. She’s been more faithful with her Japanese practice on Duolingo than I expected. She really seems to enjoy learning new words in Japanese. (Apparently the app also reminds her daily.)

We’ve also started slow with some art, at least coloring and free hand drawing. (Anime based drawing for her, no surprise.) She colored one of the mandalas in my coloring book, pictured above.

One area where we haven’t done as well, is in maintaining social contacts for her. I feel bad because she’s an only child and we’ve been home together here for a lot of the time. I think of Little House on the Prairie and how they at times lived very isolated lives, but at least they had siblings. We do play games with her and have fun together, as well as having her help with chores and cooking together.

I just feel bad that she isn’t getting any time with her best friend. It took a while to connect with her mother and get a good phone number, then the munchkin hasn’t seemed inclined to call. It’s now been over six months since they spoke. She did ask to do a video call with her cousin recently and we’ll make that happen but lining the schedules up can take some time.

The holidays are coming and that will be hard for a lot of people. My husband and I are homebodies, we like spending time here together, and won’t miss the family gatherings as much as lots of other people. To us, it’s just one year.

The munchkin and I have been talking about what we want to do for Halloween. I need to come up with a bit more decorations for indoors than we normally do, I think. She wants a pumpkin pie, I said that was fine with me. I want a good movie that is atmospheric, rather than really scary. I think we need to make a list of movies she might like that would be appropriate, and that are available on a streaming service.

We’ll be doing Thanksgiving at home, and I’ll set up a Zoom with family for sure. Christmas will likely be the same. Being in a Polish family, gatherings are largely centered around food, a bit hard to do with masks on.

A little bit off the topic, but on topic for anyone raising a child these days. As the mother of a pre-teen girl, one thing I’m always concerned about is promoting a healthy body image. I emphasize strength over being thin, and eating a balanced meal over portion size. But I still wonder if there is something I should or shouldn’t be doing. I came across this article this weekend and it was both comforting and informative, so I thought I would share it.

How to Foster Healthy Body Image in Children by Lindsay Taylor, PhD

Good luck with your schooling adventure!


Friday, October 9, 2020

Book Review: Mycroft and Holmes - The Empty Birdcage

 

Mycroft and Sherlock: The Empty Birdcage

by Kareem Abdul-Jabbar and Anna Waterhouse

This is the third book in the series and I have thoroughly enjoyed each and every one. There is something intensely relaxing for me in a detective fiction book where you follow the detectives step-by-step. And yet, these books combine that sleuthing with the best elements of characterization, setting, and pacing of the plot. I really wish there were more of them to read. Alas, this is the last in the series, for the moment.

In this book, we find Mycroft about to undergo a simple operation to help his heart function better. It is not as invasive a surgery as what they do nowadays but there is strong risk in it considering the time period. He insists the surgeons wash thoroughly before the undertaking because of what he had read from Pasteur, and because he has the clout and money to insist upon it. Thankfully, he comes through the surgery just fine.

After a gap of some six weeks for him to recover, the story picks up again with the thorn in Mycroft’s side, his younger brother Sherlock.

A series of murders has taken over the attention of England, The Fire Four Eleven Murders. But what does it mean? Sherlock is supposed to be at Cambridge but he has every intention of chasing down the murderer, using his brother’s money, of course.

Young Sherlock seems a bit reckless and even vain, but he doubts his abilities to bring the case to justice at times. Luckily, he has the pragmatic, thoughtful, and intelligent help of Huan, Mycroft’s driver who hails from Trinidad.

Both the brothers are accused of some form of witchcraft in their turn but it is only their tremendous intelligence and deductive reasoning.

The older and more worldly intelligence of Mycroft requires the tempering of conscience that his friend Douglas brings. Mycroft knows what he is capable of, and it’s not always good.

Mycroft is bent on revenging himself upon an old adversary. Then he is begged to take up the cause of Deshi Hai Lin, or rather the fiancé of Ai Lin, his daughter. Her fiancé has disappeared. Deshi Hai Lin begs Mycroft to find the young man. A difficult proposition because Mycroft himself is smitten with Ai Lin. However, he agrees to help in the end.

The stories intertwine and then move apart to be pursued in alternating chapters by the brothers. There is a solid, brisk pace to the story. Not a break neck speed but brisk enough to keep one entertained. The details of the time period are perfectly situated to entertain and enrich the story. The characters are beautifully brought to life through description, word, and deed.

I can’t recommend these stories enough if you enjoy the diversion of a good period detective fiction. This is among the best of the genre, in my opinion.


Wednesday, October 7, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 28

 

We are rolling along with school work here, adjusting here and there, but it has been going fairly smoothly on our end.

We started the school year online and were supposed to pick up worksheets every other Wednesday but that has been difficult for the teachers to prep in time so we are moving to every Friday. That doesn’t allow for a full four-day quarantine of materials but it’s better than nothing.

The munchkin is pretty good about doing her work, but she doesn’t like us to check it because we usually find something she needs to fix. We aren’t turning things in daily online anymore so we really do need to correct any problems before they get too far. If we wait until the papers go back to her teacher, she can be doing something wrong for a week or more before it gets caught. That seems like a bad idea to me.

We are getting assignments from Music and P.E., so that is good. The school had said there would be art but I haven’t seen anything yet so I’m going to start some art projects at home for her.

I have an older drawing book an aunt gave me, and one on coloring with markers, that might come in handy. I bought her a fashion coloring book where the figures are there already and she just needs to design the clothes, because I thought that might interest her.

She also loves watching videos on Kids Youtube where a young woman takes squishies and paints them, or sometimes even combines them before painting them. (The mention of squishies painting was greeted enthusiastically.)

After a little brainstorming, I turned to some friends for advice.

Home-schooling mom and newly minted author, Michelle Pointis-Burns, recommended 2 books -  

You Can Draw in 30 Days: The Fun, Easy Way to Learn to Draw in One Month or Less  – January 4, 2011 by Mark Kistler

Drawing With Children: A Creative Method for Adult Beginners, Too -  June 4, 1996 by Mona Brookes

“I've had this book for years. The other is new and I love it. Easy, step-by-step instruction for even the most reluctant artist.”

Check out Michelle's web site for homeschooling and writing https://www.michellepointisburns.com/ 

(Oh, and her first cozy mystery releases on October 24th so be sure to check out Say Cheese and Murder by Michelle Pointis-Burns! I’ve already read it and highly recommend it, if you like cozy mysteries.)

Author and home-schooling mom, Mattea Orr, gave this advice –

“We also have the Discovering Great Artists one and some kid-friendly art lesson/drawing books similar to the ones Michelle listed. Another fun one [a friend] gave us this spring is The Doodle Book by Taro Gomi---very low pressure, very fun, for the days when you're not up to a big project. We use all of those, but I try to make sure there's more doing than learning for the elementary aged kids. During the school year we usually have at least one art project centered around a holiday, one that's baking related, and some that align with a science or social studies portion that we're studying. For example, when my daughter was doing Ancient Egypt last year, she mummified an old doll, and turned a small-ish cardboard box into a sarcophagus complete with decorations/trinkets/coptic vessels. My younger daughter is easy, though. She'll do art every day no matter what. Lately, she's sketching faces from black and white photos of famous people. My older daughter prefers art that is a craft with a finished product she can use, or that tells a story, so we do a lot of book creation, photography, graphic novel, and fashion studies/creation these days. She's in 6th grade this year, so she also has an art book she works from. My son is only in first grade, so he usually tags along on the group projects and does what he can/has patience for. And I read him age-level art books and keep his projects tactile as that's what he loves.”

You can read more about Mattea and her writing at https://www.matteaorr.com/

I’ve ordered a couple books and I have some ideas. Time to make art.

For inspiration, I’ll leave you with Artist Transforms Coffee Stains into Mischievous Little Monster Illustrations from My Modern Met.


Friday, October 2, 2020

Book Review: Squeeze Me by Carl Hiaasen

 

Squeeze Me

by Carl Hiaasen

I haven’t read a Carl Hiaasen crime novel for a while but I always loved his sense of humor, sort of a lighter version of Elmore Leonard.

This one is no different. Hungry pythons set loose on a Florida town by none other than the former governor turned ecological avenger, Skink, feature prominently in the story.

As well as the bumbling criminals that I remember from his former novels. And the average Jill, named Angie, just trying to get by in this god-forsaken world.

There has been political satire in his other books but I’m not so sure that I’ve been as aware of it, because I think it often centers on Florida politics, which I know nothing about. For this novel, the current residents of the White House take center stage, hardly thinly veiled.

There are always fascinating characters, some that we love to hate, like the society matrons self-named Potussies, in wildly improbable situations. One of their members, Kiki Pew Fitzsimmons has disappeared, leaving behind her purse and a half tab of ecstasy. “Oh, she’d never do that!” Oh, but she would.

On the one hand it feels a little like all of those glittering society novels of the 80s but with the crazy criminal element married in.

And the wildlife, always the wildlife. Angie, a wildlife relocator, is called to relocate a very large python with a very large lump in its midsection.

No one seems to make the connection with Kiki Pew’s disappearance, until the next morning.

The details, the humor, the vitality in the romp. You might think you were reading an extended “Florida Man” article, but this is fiction. Okay, mostly fiction. Which is why I love this author so much. I highly recommend this book.

I think I’ll go back and read some of the other novels I missed over the years.


Wednesday, September 30, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 27

 

Learning a foreign language.

I’ve wanted to get my daughter involved in learning a second language and with her home, completing her school work in record time most days, this seemed like a good time.

“Research shows that learning a second language boosts problem-solving, critical-thinking, and listening skills, in addition to improving memory, concentration, and the ability to multitask. Children proficient in other languages also show signs of enhanced creativity and mental flexibility.”

WHY LEARN LANGUAGES: Early Childhood & Elementary

I think it’s a great way to interest children in the joy of learning as well.

My daughter loves anime so I got her started on Duolingo (https://www.duolingo.com/) for daily practice in learning Japanese. Duolingo has at least 30 languages and sends me reports on whether she logged in that day. I let her choose whether she wanted to do 5, 10, 15 or 20 minutes a day. (I want her to enjoy this, not really look at it as a chore.)

She started with 5 minutes at a time, but then promptly did 3 of them.

I’m thinking about which language I would like to learn as well.

I have seen some negative reviews that you don’t really learn the language with Duolingo, just phrases and words. I think that’s sufficient to get started and have some fun with learning a language. Then, if she is still interested, she can move on to Mango languages.

Our library also makes available a program called Mango Languages that people can use for a more extensive, self-driven learning. There are over 70 languages, (including Pirate.) They even have Castilian Spanish along with Latin American Spanish.

I’m leaning toward Italian or brushing up on my Spanish.

 

Friday, September 25, 2020

Book Review: The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian by Sherman Alexie

 


The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian

by Sherman Alexie

Since Banned Books Week is September 27 through October 3rd, our book club decided to read banned books this month. I started looking through lists, which are long and varied, and quickly found one I’ve been meaning to read for a while – The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian.

Warning: There are spoilers in the second half of this review, but I don’t believe they will take away from your enjoyment of the book. However, I will let you know when the spoilers are about to start.

I was under the mistaken belief that it was a biography, but quickly realized it was a novel. However, when I read the material at the end from the author, I found the book is largely based on his real experiences. Seems like it’s part-time fiction and part-time non-fiction.

As I was explaining to my husband the other night, just because something shows up in non-fiction, doesn’t mean it isn’t fictional literature. Good fiction also makes the reverse true as well, just because it is fiction doesn’t mean there isn’t a whole lot of truth in a book.

Arnold Spirit is the main character and he’s a goofy looking little guy, by his own statement, who was born with too much spinal fluid in his brain that had to be vacuumed out. He survived the surgery but did have some brain damage that created some anomalies in his body. Forty-two teeth is one anomaly that he claims was caused by this. One eye is near-sighted and one eye far-sighted, so he wears thick lop-sided glasses. He also had seizures regularly for the first few years of his life. Then there was the stutter and the lisp.

The author paints this picture in the first person with a huge dose of self-deprecating humor for Arnold. You can’t help but love this 14-year-old who is so funny right off the bat.

Then he sucker punches you with something sad, but often told in a matter-of-fact way. It’s an emotional roller coaster to be sure, but it’s Arnold’s life, and maybe was Sherman’s life? It gets a little confusing, so we’ll stick with Arnold.

Arnold draws cartoons which appear in the book. “I think the world is a series of broken dams and floods, and my cartoons are tiny little lifeboats.”

Arnold lives on the reservation in Spokane. This is definitely a 14-year-old boy so imagine everything that goes with that is in this book. I imagine that may be why the book was banned in some places, but it isn’t gratuitous or overly specific, just mentioned.

Arnold also imagines what his parents would be if they had the same opportunities people off the reservation have. “Given the chance, my father would have been a musician.” His father is an alcoholic who goes on benders and disappears on the family, but he’s also there for a lot of important things and totally supports Arnold. Arnold appreciates him for everything he is able to do and doesn’t seem to hold against him what he isn’t able to be. It’s quite a forgiving and amazing dynamic. For example, his father, while on a bender, saves a five-dollar bill for Christmas, and Arnold knows how hard that must have been.

Then one of Arnold’s teachers tells him that in order to succeed he needs to leave the reservation. “Jeez, it was a lot of pressure to put on a kid. I was carrying the burden of my race, you know? I was going to get a bad back from it.” But he makes up his mind to go to Reardan, the rich, white farm town school that “sits in the wheat fields exactly twenty-two miles away from the rez.”

***Spoilers Below***

It isn’t easy, transportation isn’t reliable, and the people on the rez feel like he has abandoned them, but Arnold is smart and he makes it work. Life goes on, and there are many lessons to be found from it.

He goes up against Rowdy in basketball, which he is surprisingly good at. There’s a basketball game where he gets a concussion then one where he defeats his best friend Rowdy who is on the other team, and at the end of the game, when he should be celebrating, he looks at the defeated team from the rez and feels like shit because, that was all they had, and he had taken it from them with his rich white friends.

His sister runs away and gets married, then dies in a fire. His grandmother gets hit by a drunk and dies. His godfather Eugene is killed by his friend Bobby in a drunken fight over the last drink a bottle of wine. Then Bobby hangs himself with a bedsheet.

“I blamed myself for all of the deaths. I had cursed my family. I had left the tribe, and had broken something inside all of us, and I was now being punished for that. No, my family was being punished.”

Then he goes back to school and a teacher is incredibly rude to him, and the entire class gets up one by one and drops their book on the floor and walks out in protest.  “It all gave me hope. It gave me a little bit of joy.”

He starts making lists of things that give him joy.

Like I said, this is a roller coaster ride, and it was over way too fast. I highly recommend it.

This book is so sad, and so funny. Through it all, the teacher takes you inside the story and makes you feel it instead of just telling it to you which makes a great book.

“When it comes to death, we know that laughter and tears are pretty much the same thing.”


Wednesday, September 23, 2020

Adventures in Home Learning: Episode 26

 

One of the bright spots in the stress and confusion of having kids learning at home, or even full on home schooling, is the flexibility.

My daughter got up this morning and was in a foul mood. She came down, dressed, but with her pillow and blanket, and declared that she wanted to do her school work from the couch today.

You know what? That’s okay. Is it great for her posture? No, but for today, we’ll roll with it.

As I worked in the other room, I heard a bit of an argument between her and my husband. “I’m not doing it!” she declared. I could imagine my husband shaking his head but heard no more.

When I finished my task I went out and asked what was going on. Apparently, the kerfuffle was over the new Phys Ed. requirement.

“How about we save that for this afternoon?” I suggested. “Or it can wait until after dinner, and Mommy can do it with you?”

She grabbed my hand. “Yes!”

I may not be able to do everything she can, but I’m willing to try and if it makes it easier on her, why not?

There’s nothing that says at what time we have to do something during the day, just that the requirement should be met on certain days.

A friend posted that her son wanted to do one of his assignments out near his favorite goat. Awesome. (As long as the goat doesn’t eat the assignment. We all know goats eat anything.)

My biggest challenge right now is getting my daughter to write neatly. I’m reminding her, but she doesn’t seem to be taking that to heart. There may come a time when I require her to redo something because it isn’t legible.

Yesterday, I came home and checked over her work to make sure it had all been completed. Unfortunately, she had missed part of a question. It wasn’t due until this morning so I asked her to go back and finish it then I would resubmit it.

It was one question, but you would have thought I asked her to roll Sisyphus’s boulder uphill in the hot sun. There were some sniffles and tears, much angry writing and erasing, opening and closing of computer, and blowing of nose.

I asked her if she needed more explanation. No, she understood. It took at least 15 minutes to write one answer. To be honest, I wasn’t watching the clock, it could have been closer to 25 minutes.

My husband thinks it would have been faster and easier if he had caught it, and she didn’t have to go back in long after she thought she was done. Perhaps, I don’t know. It’s all part of the give and take.

I’m just remembering not to get drawn into the drama, it will get done one way or another.

On the other end of the spectrum, she had a great time washing tomatoes for me as I chopped over the weekend and we made a couple big batches of tomato sauce from the tomatoes my husband grew. Then she helped my husband destem high bush cranberries. “Good times!” she declared.

Kids are funny.