How Starbucks Saved My Life:
A Son of Privilege Learns to Live Like Everyone Else
A Son of Privilege Learns to Live Like Everyone Else
By
Michael Gates Gill
We
recently began a thematic book club at our library and the first them was “beginnings.”
I chose a memoir about starting a new chapter in life.
Michael
Gates Gill seemed to be one of the good ol’ boys - the son of New Yorker writer
Brendan Gill and a creative director at J. Walter Thompson Advertising for over
twenty-five years. Then a new, younger, boss lets him go. Thus begins a lengthy
journey of self-discovery that will take him places he’s been many times and
yet never seen from his new perspective.
Gill
starts his own advertising firm and things go okay at first but he slowly loses
clients to bigger firms. He has an affair with a younger woman he meets at the
gym. She gets pregnant and his wife divorces him. Now he’s living in a small
apartment and trying to drum up business for his independent firm while
spending time with his young child. Then he finds out he has a rare tumor
affecting his hearing.
Gill
is on a financial downward spiral but he loves coffee and the one treat he
still allows himself is a latte. One day, in Starbucks, Crystal, a young
African American manager jokingly asks “You want a job?”
He responds “yes, I do want a job.”
She’s
skeptical but does the interview. She takes all his information and asks him
“Would you be willing to work for me?”
He
replies, “I would love to work for
you.” To tell the truth, he still isn’t sure about this job but he knows he
needs a job with a steady paycheck. The deciding factor for him is the full
health benefits they offer, even to his children.
A
couple weeks pass before she calls him.
For
all his privilege at the opening of the book, Gill’s early life isn’t precisely
easy. He gets beat up, doesn’t learn to read until he is ten and has lots of
trouble with math. His father is very distant. He comes home unexpectedly during
Gill’s 7th birthday party and says “My mother died when I was
seven.” It’s the first and last time he mentions it.
Still,
Gill goes to Yale and makes connections there that end up getting him job at J.
Walter Thompson Advertising.
The
writing has a very introspective style. Somewhat simplistic language but I
thought it illustrated his simple thinking about how life was for him. Then
when his good life falls apart he starts learning new concepts and learning
that life isn’t as simple as his privileged life had previously taught him.
Maybe
you already know all the concepts that he learns about in this book but I found
the journey interesting and there were some good reminders for all of us in it.
I would recommend it.